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Remembering Pat Ruelle
He was engaged in so many tangents of what it meant to be a man. I didn't take the time to tell him his life had chiseled my own.
Feb 1, 20236 min read


Masked Men
Every man has a mask that’s worn somewhere between occasionally and continuously either to conceal what’s inside or to project what’s not.
Jan 2, 20236 min read


Artificial Attraction
In the face of unforeseen hardship and loss, the feel-good Good News can only go so far before it becomes stale and good for nothing.
Dec 2, 20226 min read


Modesty
A modest man is a standard of decency unto himself. What he says, how he acts, and what he wears all point to a decision about how to live.
Nov 1, 20224 min read


Anarchy
Bliss without law is the promise of anarchy, but the opposite is true. Without law there cannot be liberty.
Oct 1, 20225 min read


Bonding Bill
I feel sorry for the man who is afraid to be unguarded with another man, who believes the cost of vulnerability is too big to be valuable.
Sep 1, 20228 min read


Admiring Adrian
Adrian was my first time. The first time I had tangible feelings for another man. The first time I hugged a guy and said I really love you.
Aug 2, 20225 min read


Following Francesco
That night in the theater some kind of numinous individualism was cemented inside of me. I would find a conscience free of coercion.
Jul 3, 20225 min read


Grabbing Bobby
I was seven years old when I made the fearsome decision to kidnap singer, actor, and pop-sensation Bobby Sherman and take him to my bedroom.
Jun 10, 20224 min read


Uvalde, Texas
This was evil of the satanic kind.
May 26, 20222 min read


Gerhard & Useless Eaters
A tiny mass of fetal tissue, if allowed to live, can amplify for Americans what it means to be human.
May 18, 202213 min read


What Lies Beneath
I routinely contemplate what lies beneath the male façade, and in the case of Jerry Falwell Jr. it’s nearly mesmerizing.
May 1, 20224 min read


Man up!
We have to get to the place where American men can man up by becoming compassionate, tender, and forgiving.
Apr 10, 20224 min read


Junk as Art
Prosthetic penises look to be the go-to scene enhancing stratagem for the foreseeable future until we all start clamoring for the real thing
Mar 31, 20224 min read


Does God Know?
If absolute foreknowledge is true, then what is the difference between a relationship with a personal God and a relationship with fatalism?
Mar 13, 20224 min read


Dime Store Candy
Fifty years after that initial encounter with God and I am still consuming the spiritual equivalent of dime store candy.
Jan 12, 20224 min read


Logan's Miracle
Logan’s miraculous experience reawakened in me the stark recognition that I no longer believe in God’s nearness like I did long ago.
Dec 31, 20214 min read


Aborting Landon
The dichotomy between their unquenchable love for Landon and their unshakeable support for abortion was not lost on me.
Dec 6, 20213 min read


Meet Miss November
What does a woman like Miss November do with a man like Jesus of Nazareth?
Nov 7, 20214 min read


Let's Talk Porn
Our unresolved wounds inevitably show up in our sexuality, often masquerading as a part of a healthy sexual life.
Oct 8, 20214 min read
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